Serving divorce papers in California

Service of divorce papers in California, from official sources: who can deliver the papers, how your spouse can accept or waive service, the deadline to respond, what happens without a response and the law.

Checked against official sources: Oct 24, 2026

The short answer

If you were served: Time to respond: 30 days after service (stated on the Summons, form FL-110). If you are filing: Someone 18 or older who is not you must hand your spouse the papers, or your spouse can sign a Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt (form FL-117) if served by mail.

Time to respond
30 days after service
Accept or waive service
Possible: your spouse signs a form
Law
Cal. Code Civ. Proc. 415.10, 415.30; form FL-110

Were you served in California?

Enter the day you got the papers (the summons and the petition). We show the deadline to answer.

The day the papers were handed to you or you signed for them.

Enter the date you were servedYour deadline appears when you enter the date.

How papers are served in California

  • Someone 18 or older who is not you must hand your spouse the papers, or your spouse can sign a Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt (form FL-117) if served by mail.
  • Other methods (posting, publication) need the court's permission.

Law: Cal. Code Civ. Proc. 415.10, 415.30; form FL-110

Deadline to respond and default

30 days after service (stated on the Summons, form FL-110).

If your spouse doesn't respond in time, you can usually ask the judge for a default judgment.

Serving your spouse in California, step by step

  1. File your papers first

    File with the Superior Court (family law division) in your county. Service comes after filing.

  2. Serve the papers

    Other methods (posting, publication) need the court's permission.

  3. Or have your spouse sign

    Someone 18 or older who is not you must hand your spouse the papers, or your spouse can sign a Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt (form FL-117) if served by mail.

  4. File proof of service

    File the proof of service with the court.

  5. Watch the deadline

    30 days after service (stated on the Summons, form FL-110).

  6. If there is no response

    If your spouse doesn't respond in time, you can usually ask the judge for a default judgment.

Questions about serving divorce papers in California

How do you serve divorce papers in California?

Someone 18 or older who is not you must hand your spouse the papers, or your spouse can sign a Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt (form FL-117) if served by mail. Other methods (posting, publication) need the court's permission.

Can my spouse accept or waive service in California?

Someone 18 or older who is not you must hand your spouse the papers, or your spouse can sign a Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt (form FL-117) if served by mail.

How long does my spouse have to respond in California?

30 days after service (stated on the Summons, form FL-110).

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